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LIFE LESSONS

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The process of learning in life is just like the process you went through at school.You don't go from creche to college.You must go through every class.If you fail in life,you have to keep trying until you have learnt what is required.This process is repeated throughout our lives.When it seems that what you are going through is unfair,when you're angry or hurt and asking ''Why me''.Think for a moment and look for the lesson that you are being taught.The saying ''Everything Happens for a reason''.might be true. We may never know what that reason is if we don't take time to look for it. Life is about creating yourself Look at your life,think about difficulties you encounter continuously and think about lessons you can learn to stop the cycle.From a PR point of view, believe it takes honesty and dedication to change behaviour but it is an invaluable investment in your future.The triumphs of life should not hold us back from reach...

YOU ARE YOUR OWN HAPPINESSS

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 You complete who you are                                                                  Complete Happiness As people we tend to look for someone who will complete us.As long as this is the view,it will take us a long time to reach a stage where we go into relationships complete and not looking for completion We should not go looking for happiness elsewhere, because if we are not happy with ourselves,how do we even know if and how someone would make us happy. We also expect that all the things we don't like about ourselves will be complemented by all the good things that the other person will bring.From a communication point of view,i believe that...

FULFIL THE INNER YOU

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Be a better person Learning to please yourself first before others is not a bad thing. We are encouraged by society to be selfless people who put others' needs before our own.This is mainly supported by our different cultures and religions.Pleasing others first may be satisfying to the other person but it often leaves you all empty and disappointed. To be the best you can be you need to satisfy your own needs first. You will be more; Content Joyful Relaxed It is important to grow within yourself positive qualities that will help you be a better person who is fulfilled.There is absolutely nothing wrong with loving yourself and taking care of your needs. Loving yourself begins and ends with you,you will not seek approval and will limit how much of yourself you will give to others. BE SELF-FULL! its' one of the best things you can do for yourself

TRIM OR CURVY YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE!!

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 Curves or bones?  Real men go for curvy girls!And only dogs go for bones!How true is this statement?Here is my point of view don't feel insecure about yourself,we are all of different sizes and shapes and that is what makes us unique.We should look at everything we like about ourselves and begin to love it. Loving yourself is the most important thing and we should accept the way we are.If you were born skinny don't let people say you "anorexic" and if you are a plus size don't let people call u a" balloon".No matter what size or shape you are people will always judge so pay no attention to them.  Beauty comes in different shapes Some men like curves and most of them like thinner girls,because they believe thinner girls are much more healthier.The actual fact is, men vary much as females do.If your men thinks you've gained weight tell him where to get off .So ladies don't worry about what guys think of your body bec...

HIDING BEHIND MAKEUP

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Wild and Fun Cosmetics have been around for thousands of years, particularly to enhance or protect human skin. Most people use makeup to be colourful, wild, fun and be a little rosy, but i think make up hides you. Your natural beauty can certainly not be seen because of the makeup. So ladies ladies ladies! Go easy on the makeup you are beautiful just the way you are. Yes they say make-up is like art, it covers up blemishes, spots and so on, but when you over use it, it looks like you are a ghost that just came back to life. Girls usually wear makeup to boost their self-confidence, self-esteem and to feel better about themselves. The sad truth is that, most of them use it just to fit in, they want to be in with the popular girls and look attractive towards guys but guys actually prefer girls with a natural look. Makeup does wonders If you are young and using makeup, the possibilities are that; when you get older, you can look really old and have ble...

TOO ASHAMED TO BE YOU!!

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 faircrea white whitening cream  Skin Brighteners or Bleaching, that’s what most people call it.One of the reasons why people bleach their skin, is because they want to look more appealing and attractive. Does our skin colour define who we are? Clearly some people think so, they go to such extremes where they bleach their skin and become "whiter" than white people so to say.  Singer has a passion for Whiteness     A South African Kwaito singer, Mshoza made headlines a couple of months ago, changing her skin colour from being an African Dark Beauty to "A white person" that's how she portrays herself now. In an interview with Saturday Star, she said "I don't really look pale at the moment, but yes when everything is done I will look like a white person. From head to toe. What message is she sending out to her fans, that one shouldn’t be comfortable in their own skin? Some celebrities bleach their skin because they have mo...

BE YOURSELF

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You are who you are not what you think you are! It might not make sense but it has a broad meaning. We should learn to appreciate and love the way we are and not imitate others. Living life in the shadow of others is what most of us do, we try to dress in a specific way just to fit in People should learn to lead the way in their own special way by being your unique self and born identity. We were all given special qualities when we were born but we tend to not show any of these qualities because we are afraid of being judged by the rest of the world. Marcus Tullius quoted "For how many things, which for our own sake we should never do, do we perform for the sake of our friends". This begs the question, are we trying to live the life of celebrities? For instance, there are people who have tattooed their faces simply because Lil Wayne did so, not even knowing the real reasons why he did so. Could we be doing such things just to get attention or to get a feeling ...