YOU ARE YOUR OWN HAPPINESSS


You complete who you are

                                                              
Complete Happiness
As people we tend to look for someone who will complete us.As long as this is the view,it will take
us a long time to reach a stage where we go into
relationships complete and not looking for completion
We should not go looking for happiness elsewhere,
because if we are not happy with ourselves,how do
we even know if and how someone would make us
happy.




We also expect that all the things we don't like about ourselves will be complemented by all the good things that the other person will bring.From a communication point of view,i believe that happiness  should come from within and should not be dependent on something outside of you.
We should learn to bring positivity in our lives in whichever way possible.

Comments

  1. MA-HAZEL20 April 2012 at 11:00

    ya hey we tend to think guys/better half as they are known complete us & make us happy but truly speaking happiness is a choice when u are happy then everyone around u will be.

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    1. LeQueen23 April 2012 at 02:30

      there are people who will always bring you down,and we end up being selfless and our happiness is co-determined by behaviours and attitudes of others

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  2. Unknown20 April 2012 at 12:46

    The best person you can ever be is yourself hence it is so impportant that we all love, respect and appriciate ourselves before other people.

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    1. LeQueen23 April 2012 at 02:28

      Well thats not the case with the generation of today.We constantly learn to please others before we please ourselves,

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  3. Thobeka-THE RISE AND FALL OF THE NATION23 April 2012 at 02:26

    TRue that i once over-heared some lady in a taxi chating with her friend,she said is is nothing without her husband then a posed a question to maself is this love or obssesion?how can you love someone more than yourself?

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  4. Anonymous23 April 2012 at 23:58

    leQueen that is a wise blog, adding on what you are saying they say, "You will never be happy in this world if you measure yourself with someone else". Simply meaning be greatful of what you have because the will always be someone better than you and you will always be batter than someone else.

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