THE MEANING OF LOVE

Love gets stronger with time
Society has many interpretations of love,in our interpretation of what love is,there should never be pain.As a collective we need to shift our perceptions of love.We need to realise that love can never be shown in the form of pain or fear


We have been taught to believe that when someone hurts you and treats you badly,it is all in the name of LOVE.I don't buy that because love,in its purest form,is something beautiful and awesome.


Love should not come at a price,where people feel that they should change who they are to feel love.The love that you share with others should be the kind of love that you feel for yourself.You cannot say you love a person when you constantly tell him/her that:'' I will only love you if you do this and that".When a person loves you,he/she will encourage you to be the best that you can be.


LOVE SHOULD BE UNCONDITIONAL!!

Comments

  1. Unknown13 August 2012 at 02:19

    if everyone follow this blog and understand the different between love and hurt,reality tells its self but people end up doing things out of their position it can start with love end with hurt everything depend on the opposite

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  2. LeQueen22 August 2012 at 16:33

    I personaly blv dt t starts by loving nd respecting yourself 1st..b dat unique individual dat evry1 wd associate thmselvs wd,but at the end of the day its not bwt pleasn society,whn u feel loved nd important t makes yu feel complte as an individual

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