MOVING ON

Let go of the Past
Traumatic incidents such as events like losing a loved one,death and divorce,make us feel worthless and powerless,but we can't blither and whine forever because we need to move on.Breaking up with your partner or getting a divorce,such situations keep us back and prevent us from doing whats best for our future.

Bad things happen to everyone,hard times will test our strengths and weaknesses.And it is a challenge to face the bad stuff bravely rather than run away from it.Most of us usually say"My life will not be the same without him/her or rather i am nothing without this person".This implies that you do not believe that you can be or do whatever you want to,because you really can.

Yes it is not simply easy to forget a loved one,it may take time,but remember that the longest  journeys begin with a single footstep.I don't see a reason why anyone should deprive themselves of fun,LIFE IS TOO SHORT!!Stop blaming yourself for things that went wrong in the relationship.Let the past remain in the past and let it go.

Comments

  1. AfricanHibiscuses5 May 2012 at 04:33

    Sometimes it is not that easy to move on, you feel as if you cannot survive or live without that person.

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  2. LeQueen6 May 2012 at 01:53

    Its all about taking one step at a time.You can't be holding on to the past forever

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  3. MphoMothiba7 May 2012 at 12:38

    I also believe that life is too short fun is enjoyable and helps relieve stress, traumatic incidents are hard but you are right "we can't blither and whine forever".It takes time and yesi it begins with ine footstep at a time

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    1. LeQueen9 May 2012 at 09:38

      Moving on is the best thing you could do for yourself,actualy if that person was'nt meant to be part of your life so be it.

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