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Learn from your mistakes!!

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No one should dwell over mistakes  Mistakes are part of everyday life and can help you to build your character and make you a better person in the future.Mistakes are a great educator when one is honest enough to admit them and willing to learn from them.We need to try and make the best of even the most difficult situations.There's no running or hiding. Shifting blame to others might be a temporary solution and may assist in getting pressure off for a limited time,but the mistake will usually come back and the pressure will always interfere with the learning process. WAYS TO HELP YOU LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES Acknowledge your mistakes Act,repair and seek help Move ahead bravely Learn to apologise Humour

FRIENDSHIP

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Cast from the series;Friends Most people you call friends hang out with you because of what they get from you whether its a listening ear,a shoulder to cry on or money at the end of a tight month. The most important thing about being a good friend is; Treating everybody as you would have them treat you. Be a friend in word and indeed Always be honest Give as good as you get Return favours and always act without expecting something in return A friend should love you when you are unlovable,hug you when you unhuggable. They should cheer when the whole world boos and cry when you cry. The list of my friends is as long as the list of reasons for choosing to stay around them,and each relationship is as unique as the person it involves.We should never take our friends for granted,because they won't always be around.For as long as long as you have them,always let your friends know how special they are to you

THE MEANING OF LOVE

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Love gets stronger with time Society has many interpretations of love,in our interpretation of what love is,there should never be pain.As a collective we need to shift our perceptions of love.We need to realise that love can never be shown in the form of pain or fear We have been taught to believe that when someone hurts you and treats you badly,it is all in the name of LOVE .I don't buy that because love,in its purest form,is something beautiful and awesome. Love should not come at a price,where people feel that they should change who they are to feel love.The love that you share with others should be the kind of love that you feel for yourself.You cannot say you love a person when you constantly tell him/her that:'' I will only love you if you do this and that".When a person loves you,he/she will encourage you to be the best that you can be. LOVE SHOULD BE UNCONDITIONAL!!

SUCCESS IS A STATE OF MIND!

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Happy group of students in their graduation  When you are successful,people soon forget about your shortcomings and place an achiever tag on you.Success begins with a fellows will.It's all in your state of mind.You've got to think high to rise up.However success does not come without pain.It depends on hardwork,perseverance,diligence and consistency. It does not matter where you are now,perseverance is what counts in the end. The mark of a successful person is someone who can build something of value with the bricks that others have thrown at him The are no limitations in what you can do,except the limitations of your own mind. To accomplish great things we must not only act but also dream;not only plan but also believe"Anatole France'' Only those who work hard,even when it is difficult to taste success .Always be positive if you think you have been beaten.If you like to win but think you can't,you won't.If you think you'll lose,yo...