Reveal your true self

Always show gratitude    Everyday we wake up complaining about this and that-how we wish we had jobs that paid more loving relationships with our partners.We never feel that what we have is enough because we are always in the fast lane,wanting something better. The love and connection that you have with people cannot be replaced by cars,flashy clothes or your job title.It is important to show gratitude even in sadness.Be grateful that joy still lives in you even when you are going through negative experiences.  Flashy cars don't define us  Its the little things that we take for granted but its those little things that make so much difference.Many people have become selfish beings that find it difficult to be still and appreciate things that we have been blessed with because they are always chasing things,they feel they never have enough. We need no to worry about society reminding us about age and the things that we need to have achieved b...

Many people are influenced by the media,to perceive themselves in a certain way. Hip-hop influences our social life and the way we dress.Certain people breathe and live hip -hop culture,in such a way that one forgets their own culture. Choosing to portrayy an image f another individual you see on a magazine or television shows that you not happy with your own image.Yes its' acceptable to be different  and unique,but it does not give one a reason to forget their sense of belonging.     The youth are often surrounded by negative     images and messages,and this affects their      way of thinking,as they come across hip-hop     music with vulgar language.There needs to     be balance with respect to the images we     see and the music we listen to.

Some people choose to wear clothes,which hide them from socioety,because of the fear of judgment and others wear next to nothing to show they are proud of who they are.What we wear gives some information about our identity and in many ways just a mirror of our personality and understanding of the world. In todays society,others attempt to mimic others' style of dress when that isn't their preference at all.To a certain extent clothes give us more or less confident in ourselves,thus shaping our personalities for the day.  Wearing a cocktail dress or a pair of sexy heels can make us look more outgoing or willing to put ourselves out there. our outward apperance does influence our inward personality.It is a reflection of our personal traits and charecteristics.

Everyone is a moon and has a dark side which he/she never shows to everybody. Some people mislead the shadow as the dark side .It's not that our shadow qualities are bad,its that we hide them because they do not fit into our picture of who we want to be or what people expect us to be. We consider ourselves to be compassionate but we have a more selfish,sometimes arrogant impatient side.We pride ourselves in our discipline but have secret addictive tendencies. We preach about morality and purity to others but constantly battle with our longing to indulge our senses in every possible way.

No one should dwell over mistakes  Mistakes are part of everyday life and can help you to build your character and make you a better person in the future.Mistakes are a great educator when one is honest enough to admit them and willing to learn from them.We need to try and make the best of even the most difficult situations.There's no running or hiding. Shifting blame to others might be a temporary solution and may assist in getting pressure off for a limited time,but the mistake will usually come back and the pressure will always interfere with the learning process. WAYS TO HELP YOU LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES Acknowledge your mistakes Act,repair and seek help Move ahead bravely Learn to apologise Humour

Cast from the series;Friends Most people you call friends hang out with you because of what they get from you whether its a listening ear,a shoulder to cry on or money at the end of a tight month. The most important thing about being a good friend is; Treating everybody as you would have them treat you. Be a friend in word and indeed Always be honest Give as good as you get Return favours and always act without expecting something in return A friend should love you when you are unlovable,hug you when you unhuggable. They should cheer when the whole world boos and cry when you cry. The list of my friends is as long as the list of reasons for choosing to stay around them,and each relationship is as unique as the person it involves.We should never take our friends for granted,because they won't always be around.For as long as long as you have them,always let your friends know how special they are to you